Frequently Asked Questions

I offer a variety of curated services. If you have a different request that is not listed below, you may include it in your inquiry form for My consideration. All requests must align with My interests and standards.

• Cash meets

• Shopping trips

• Dominance sessions in a BDSM studio in Berlin (Studio Lux)

• Dominance sessions in a 4 or 5-star hotel room

• Fly Me to you (anywhere in the world)

• Social dates (opera, theatre, art exhibition, museum, afternoon tea, brunch, luxury shopping trip, fetish events/parties, fine dining, jazz club, galas, etc.)

• Dinner & Dominance

• Keyholding

As a queer mixed-race black Domme, inclusivity is deeply important to Me. I welcome everyone, regardless of gender, sexuality, race, age (21+), or ability—into a space of acceptance, respect, and exploration. Whether you're experienced or taking your first steps into BDSM. A thorough pre-session discussion ensures your desires, boundaries, and concerns are honored, creating a safe, personalized experience. I seek respectful, clean, and truly devoted subs who understand that consent and care are My top priorities.

I am very selective about who earns the privilege of serving Me. As a luxury Lifestyle Dominatrix, I desire more than fleeting indulgence—I seek devotion. So if you want to serve me follow these steps:

• Read My entire website thoroughly.

• A Goddess requires an offering, and as such, an initial tribute fee of 50 euros is mandatory. This ensures that you recognize the first step in devotion and the seriousness of your booking request.

• Tributes must be offered BEFORE submitting your inquiry form. Tributes can be paid through My Throne. Leave your name or e-mail address in the notes, otherwise, I can’t link the tribute back to you. If you forget to do this, I will see the tribute as an offering that is not linked to an inquiry. Tributes can also be paid in the form of a virtual gift card. All gift cards must be addressed to Goddess_Nadirah@proton.me. In the indulge section you can see which gift cards I accept.

• After that, you can submit your inquiry. It usually takes Me 24 hours to get back to you.

• Once I have received and read your inquiry, I will get back to you with a personalized offer.

• A 50% deposit of the total session amount is required upfront. Deposits can be paid through bank transfer or Throne. The rest can be paid in cash on the day of the session or through bank transfer. I will contact you about this after you have submitted your booking form.

• It all starts with respect. For My time, My energy, My body, My mind & My spirit.

• Always refer to Me as Goddess or Goddess Nadirah in your messaging and during the session.

• Make sure to take some time for yourself before and after the session. Arrive well-rested, sober, hydrated, and fed.

• Arrive with flawless hygiene, this is non-negotiable. A full-body shower, every crevice thoroughly cleansed, fresh breath from proper brushing, flossing, and tongue scraping, along with well-groomed and washed hair and clean, trimmed nails. No cologne, perfume, or aftershave, but use an antiperspirant. If you have requested an@l play, make sure you clean your insides. This is mandatory!

• While not required, it is certainly appreciated. Bring a gift from My wishlist or something for Me to indulge in. It will always bring a smile to My face and create a memorable first impression.

• Come with an open heart and a willingness to fully surrender—I have no patience for brats and topping from the bottom. True submission to Me means surrender, not defiance.

• Read My website thoroughly, especially this section with the FAQ, but also the page about limits and kinks.

• Follow Me on all My social media accounts and engage with My posts.

I’m currently based in Berlin and I tour quite frequently. Especially to Amsterdam, London, Copenhagen, and Stockholm. Follow Me on My social media accounts to stay up to date with My touring schedule. In My Instagram highlights you can find touring updates.

Oh, trying to lure Me away from Berlin, are you? Tempting, but if you want Me to grace your city with My presence, you'll have to do more than just ask nicely.

Read the instructions below carefully and if you are interested, you can include it in your inquiry form. Leave the details of the Fly-Me-to-you in the “additional meet information tab”

Berlin

• The duration of the session/social date should be at least 1,5 hours.

• A 50% deposit of the total session fee is required.

• You pay for all My expenses during our time together.

Within Germany (Outside of Berlin)

• The duration of the session/social date should be at least 5 hours.

• Upfront payment via bank transfer for My 4+ star hotel room (minimum 1 night), 1st class train ticket, and any additional transportation (e.g., Uber). I handle all bookings Myself.

• A 50% deposit of the total session fee is required.

• You pay for all My expenses during our time together.

Europe & UK

• The duration of the session/social date should be at least 8 hours.

• Upfront payment via bank transfer for My 4+ star hotel room (minimum 2 nights), flights, and any additional transportation (e.g., Uber). I handle all bookings Myself.

• A 50% deposit of the total session fee is required.

• Business class flight if the duration of the flight is more than 3 hours.

• You pay for all My expenses during our time together.

International

• The duration of the session/social date should be at least 24 hours.

• Upfront payment through bank transfer for My own 4+ star room (4 nights minimum), flights & other transportation (e.g. Uber). I handle all bookings Myself.

• A 50% deposit of the total session fee is required.

• Business class flight is required.

• You pay for all My expenses during our time together.

Deposits are refunded if cancellation is on My part, due to unpredictable matters such as illness.

If you cancel between 2 and 14 days beforehand, your deposit can be credited towards a reschedule in the coming two months. If you cancel less than 48 hours before our meeting, your deposit will be kept as a cancellation fee.

For FMTYs and multi-day meetings, your deposit will be kept as a cancellation fee if cancellation occurs 7 days or less before your booking.

Read more about My kinks and limits here

Read more about My indulgences here